My Fabulous Friends – Ann Jangle

Queen of Hearts

23 January 2019

My Fabulous friends is about just ordinary people doing the extraordinary and so I love sharing their heartfelt stories…

I have been wanting to write about this wildly extravagant friend of mine for quite some time… but as with everything in my life…when we are in the flow the right timing will be just the right timing…

…And now is the absolute right timing…for a good cause…and who does not want to be part of a good cause…

A few months ago Ann decided to sell everything she owned and embarked on a journey:  “AFRICAN DREAM PARADE”

“This mission is based on a quest to find absolute freedom. Freedom from time, freedom from reoccurring relationships. Freedom from the questions I have about myself and questions I have about society. Freedom from my ego. To top it all off, freedom from paying someone else’s mortgage at a ridiculous amount because I chose to stay in an area where 4 million other mother humans beings also chose to.
So far, it has been the biggest and most humbling experience of my life.”

My name is Ann Jangle and this is my story: 

They say people come into your life for a reason. After meeting a guy, who is now cycling to Morocco to raise awareness for endangered Donkeys, due to the Chinese “mannetjies” and their need to kill everything that moves, in order for them to receive super powers and prevent the inevitable thing called aging, I started meeting more and more crazy adventurous souls, who stick out from the norm, yet keep a very low profile because they know, that to live a life outside of what society tells us, they bravely need to go off grid over long periods of time, to cleanse, to figure things out, to reboot and drown in the pure ecstasy & healing energy that nature provides. (Go check him out on Facebook / Instagram – “A Donkey’s Life” / Keegan Horn & support his cause)  Continue reading “My Fabulous Friends – Ann Jangle”

SWEAT!!! WHAT???


1 December 2017

It was a week before my 50th birthday on the 24th of July that this sweat lodge experience came to me.

I am always joking about my birthdate 24/7… because, this is exactly like I used to work…

March 2016 I became very sick and needed to get to grips with it. (read more about sickness clicking on the blue sick)

So, on my healing conquest I became more aware of how emotional and physical health are linked. This made so much sense after not dealing with challenges for a long time. By not dealing with emotional challenges, it will manifest into sickness.

The fact that I would be 50 and have hormones out of whack, also encouraged the disease of course.

After so much time has passed, I now believe firmly that being sick guided me to get to the root of the challenges…

So…on such a note, speaking of this guidance, brings me to Pachamama retreat.

It was Saturday the 8th of July on my Mother in law’s birthday. My son Juan, his girlfriend Katja and I were celebrating with Mom for her birthday with a breakfast at our world famous Saturday Market.

A friend of Juan and Katja, Chris, walked by and we were introduced.  He proceeded to tell us about the Sweat lodge happening the next day. I have always been intriqued with the idea of doing something like this, but have never before felt such an urgency to participate as I did then.  I do believe this was the moment I made my mind up to do it…

Katja and Juan also felt like going the next day and it was settled.

As it turned out, it started to rain lightly in the night which was truly a blessing as this was the first rain after the terrible raging fires in Knysna and surrounds.

The next day found me enjoying lying in bed as it was cold and raining.

Everyone cancelled the trip as it was an apparent 35 minute drive into the forest to get to Pachamama. This does not sound too far, but my vehicle to travel there was a tiny Chevy Spark, left to us by my Mother who died December. Also I have never been there and did not have the faintest idea how to get there.

So, I stayed in bed enjoying watching the light misty rain fall and toying with the abandonement of an idea to get up and go SWEAT…

Once again, I felt an inexplicable urge to do the sweat and made the decision to get up and go.

I had to visit the petrol station before such a drive, as the Chevy these days wanted more oil (5th litre for the week) than petrol. At the petrol station, Petrus, who have been working there since I can remember, was surprised to find me at the wheel. He only found out then that my Mother had died in December.

I do believe that the way in which my Mom died had a huge impact on me and probably this had to do with the urge I felt of going to the sweat.

In her last days, my Mother’s body was in an unceasing spasm. She could not move and had to be turned every two hours. She also had to be changed regularly as she had to wear nappies.

I was blessed to find space with The Living Cornerstone just around the corner from me, a 24 hour care facility. We were super blessed that this state of being lasted only three weeks before she left us. If you knew my Mom, you would know that she was very independent. She would not have wanted this state of being one bit. I was thankful for those last three weeks as I am an only child and we did not have the best relationship. It was healing to be at her side for most of the time.

Here I want to add that just last night, I found the note that came with two handkerchiefs gifted to me, during this time by my Mom’s side. It was gifted by Annemarie and Johan. These are the parents of our friends, Fanie, Christo and Joe Moller. We can always be sure of parental guidance from these two wise humans as they love reading and researching and thus share a wealth of knowledge. I am filled with gratitude to have them on our life journey.

As I believe that I was in perfect flow, the message for directions from Chris came through on my phone…at least now I knew kinda where I had to go.

It was an adventurous drive for sure, driving into the forrest passing farms with cows grazing in the fields. Just that morning, I saw a video about cows and it felt as if everything happening was connecting dots on my journey. At one point I stopped next to the cows and walked over to the fence, locking eyes with them. It was an awesome feeling of connectivity…

It felt as if I was in a foreign country going to a sweat lodge, but here it was offered to me right in my backyard, so to speak…

…superblessed indeed…

Onwards I drove and got there just on time.

There was no time for me to change as it started raining. I stripped down to my lingerie in a dorm and luckily had my scarf to cover up with until we were inside the darkness of the very low hut.  Nothing mattered at all as I felt as if I was absolutely at the right place and at the right time.

We walked pass a fire filled with big glaring red stones which were obviously readied for us for a while.

The hut was small and we had to crawl in through a tiny opening. I counted nine people. We were told to sit in a circle and settled in.

Then the fire glaring red stones were brought and carefully placed in the middle of our circle. As each stone were brought in, a chant was heard …”Welcome Grandmother”…and this chant continued after every fiery hot stone…”Welcome Grandmother”

Nixiwaka said that he wanted nine stones, but only seven were able to fit the small firespace and then…the flap of the hut were closed and we sat in pitch darkness with only the glaring of the fire…water was added and a lot of steam were forming in the small space…

It was the strangest feeling and totally out of my comfort zone as I am claustrophobic.

But alas, it was not my own urgent voice which rang out; it was two of the men that pleaded to leave the hut immediately.

They were told that if they left, they would not be able to join in again. This made my decision clear to suck it up and stick it out.

I have come this far with the adventure…and again I felt an overwhelming sense of being at the right place at the right time.  I had to smile nervously, as I sensed a confirmation because of the two people leaving, as now we were seven and seven has always been a profound number for me. Not only is it widely considered to be the perfect number, but my first relationship as a teenager lasted until it’s seventh year, my first marriage lasted seven years, my first business…yes, seven years when I sold it…my second business exactly the same…

Now I fully believed that I was at the right place…at the right time…

Nixiwaka started a guided meditation with his melodious voice… chackra number one (red) was confronted, cleansed, cleared of any bad energy, surrounding it in soft healing light and then only moving on to the next chackra.

This felt so amazing and I could feel my body and mind responding well…the next chackra (orange) was addressed and lovingly cleansed and healed… all the while the water was poured on the stones…and steam was enveloping us…

I was sweating profusely by this time, but it did not matter at all…I felt giddy with expectation…

Chackra number three (yellow) was up and here was a different story. This is the chackra that has to do with nurturing…
…while writing this article, I figured out that this is probably why I love giving foot treatments… while nurturing others, I am giving out what I most need…

I wrote a book and published it in 2010 – Bury the Past, Unlock the future. I thought that I have dealt with all my issues relating to nurturing.

My Dad was an alcoholic when I was born and because of this I had a very angry Mom. My Mom had also had a few miscarriages before me as well as carrying a baby boy full term who died when he was born and this was two years prior to myself.  So as can be expected…a lot of hurt and anger. To add drama to chaos, I was born with asthma and remained a daily asthmatic until my late teenage years when I “outgrew” it.  So just imagine how much trouble I was to try and keep alive…

Well, clearly chackra no three was communicating to me that it was still out of whack as I started hyperventilating.  I have been battling with panic attacks on a regular basis for the last year and I knew exactly how it felt when it was revealing itself…and it was definitely revealing itself…

I started feeling pins and needles on the sides of my hands…I tried to take big gulps of air and was relieved that it was so dark that no one could see me.  The pins and needles started spreading and my hands began to spasm.  I took some more air and tried to calm my mind, but when the pins and needles reached my face, I knew I had to get out… or I would probably land face down onto the glaring Grandmother stones.

I had calming pills prescribed by my doctor in my bag which was in the car and it worked with immediate effect if I could only get to it fast enough…

Everyone was in deep meditation and a young lady was sitting entranced next to me.  I felt so awful to bother her, but I had to get out as I was seeing grey and knew that I was about to faint.

I motioned that I wanted to get out, but she reprimanded me to stay for awhile longer.  I think I conveyed to her in some more urgent tones as she gave me a little space to meander around her…then I still had to get pass Nixiwaka, our most peaceful guide…

He must have sensed how urgent it was as he opened the flap for me, but as I passed him, he whispered that I would be welcomed back when they open the flap for some more stones, which will happen another three times.

Crawling to get outside, I stood up in a downpour of rain with my bare feet sinking into thick mud.

What now?…

…my car was about a kilometre away, but my carkeys were in the dorm about a kilometre in the opposite direction…and I was contorted in spasm and in no condition to walk anywhere by this time…

This was the point when I knew with certainty that there was nothing I could do and no one to help me… I simply had to let go…

I saw a bench next to the dam and somehow made my way there…

I stumbled onto it and let my head fall back. The downpour of rain felt very cool and cleansing.

My face and mouth were totally scew by now (it looks like you are having a stroke) and I began embracing the fact that I would die here…

It felt as if I could just drink more and more of the pure life-giving water, the more I let go and let the rainwater run into my mouth.  It felt as if the pins and needles and even my sore right kidney were being flushed.

The rain poured over me and I kept drinking, feeling strangely soothed.

I started thinking about my life and a feeling of complete and utter calm began spreading through my body.  It dawned on me that we all knew that we are going to die one day;  in fact this is the only certainty of our life.

I also thought about the recent raging fires and the people who died horrifically in those fires and all the others who lost everything.  This was the first downpour of rain after the raging fires and I felt somehow refreshed and as if all my aches and pains were being exorcised…even my sore neck felt better.

Feeling more calmness and absolutely superblessed with my peaceful setting, I prayed then, giving gratitude for the perfectly serene space and beauty all around for my last breath.

I was extremely grateful that I ended up going alone as I would not have wanted my loved ones to see me like this.

In my prayers, I expressed gratitude for each of my loved ones, my husband, my children and all my amazing friends…

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

…and the most awesome experiences I have had during my lifetime.

Gratitude for having been at the hospital to meet my most beautiful granddaughter, Alexia when she was born…I remember first standing behind the glass window and watching her proud Dad with his newborn. Then he came to us and handed her over to me. As I looked at her, she tried her best to focus and look into my eyes and I could not have imagined that it would happen, but it did…our eyes locked for just a brief encounter, but an eternity…

Yes, I have surely lived a rewarding life!

 

Feeling absolutely relaxed now with feelings of utmost peace, I heard something and when I turned my head, I saw the flap of the hut opening and more stones being fetched.

I realized then that I was actually able to get up and making my way slowly through the mud once again I felt determined to go back in…

Inside I went to sit on the opposite side where the two men that left had sit for more breathing space.

Again the glaring red stones were welcomed as grandmothers and this is when it dawned on me that I too, was a grandmother…

I felt honoured by this realization, as if I was meant to feel welcome and then the flap closed again.

Again the water were poured on the glaring stones…again I started hyperventilating…

…but this time I was determined to stay as now I knew for a fact that I would live to tell this tale. (And this is exactly why I decided to share.)

I was here for a reason, to clear the imbalances which had my Mom in a paralised spasm when she died…and myselfas I was in a spasm and ready to go just now.

Not only was my Mom caught up in this spasm state, but she kept asking me for her daughter.  I tried to comfort her by staying with her and reminding her that I was her only child (as far as I know), but she just said, ‘not you, my other daughter’…

Yes, my nurtering chackra was definitely out of whack…and this I probably handed down through my cell memory to my children and onto my granddaughter.

I was here to do everything possible to stop this downward spiral. To give the gift of forgiveness…This was my quest…I was here to let go for me and my loved ones…

I would be eternally grateful to know for sure that my children never have to wonder if they were good enough for me…I have the most beautiful children and I would be superblessed to get to a point where I know that they definitely know this…that they would know that I love them unconditionally, they do not need to prove themselves, they have already proved themselves by showing up in my life…by bringing me to this point of knowing…and doing…

There were a bottle of water being sent around with the utmost reverance and gratitude and now, (because of the experience on the bench), I could better sense just how important life giving water is and how easy it becomes for us to take it for granted.  Not only water, but how often do we just gulp down our food because we are in a hurry and then we wonder where all our health problems stems from.

When last have you enjoyed the actual taste of a banana or avocado or name it…how do we taste better?

By using all our senses…
seeing – (wanting it because it looks good),
taking it (touch) and then smelling the flavours first and having our brain help by thinking (enticing) how it should taste.  This is conscious/mindful eating and I definitely want to do more of it from now on…which brings us back to gratitude once again.

After these mind blowing revelations, it became tough for me to breathe again and as it was dark and I had so much space around me, I laid down on my tummy.

There was a glimmer of light coming through the bottom of the hut and I put my nose closer for some more oxygen. This actually helped a lot and I could listen once again to the melodious voice of  Nixiwaka.

He proceeded to tell a story which I am not going to share details of, but it was exactly what I needed to hear.  As he told it, I felt my sore kidney being warmed by the fireside.  It also felt like little droplets of water was being sprinkled on it.  I felt completely at ease with being there prostate on the ground.

My message for the longest time and also the strongest to come through at the SWEAT, is to be more still and present.  I have always been a doer (always working or doing something to feel validated).  I had a tough time to relax.

This again, yes, stems from my Mother, as I always had to perform to perfection, to make her happy. I am not saying this as a judgement, but it is just what it is…took me a long time to figure this out as well.  We can use abusive behaviour as an excuse or an opportunity…

When the flap was opened again, I sat upright and ready to receive some more profound messages…which I did…and completed the sweat!

Afterwards I had a shower and we shared a meal together in Nixiwaka’s home.  His son, Adam, were there and I surprised him by knowing his name, before he could say it. (I read up on Pachamama the day before and he was on the website.) Even the cats welcomed me while I ate mindfully.

I had to rush home as it was late afternoon and getting dark fast. With the downfall of rain it was no easy road for the Chevy.

Instead of turning right, I turned left and when I suspected I was on the wrong road, it luckily became too narrow for me to continue driving.  I immediately turned around and hightailed out of there.  It was getting dark super fast and I was still in the forest.

I whizzed past the cows who strangely enough came to the fence when they saw me coming as if they wanted to enhance our earlier experience.

Unfortunately I was in too much of a hurry to get home at this stage. It was cold, wet and dark by now and on I speeded.

Coming around a bend, I saw a huge white horse in the road. I am a card reader and this means huge opportunity…

Upon arriving home safely, drenched as it was raining hard, I made myself not just a cup, but a pot of chamomile and rooibos tea with honey and even took the cinamon spice bottle with as I went up to my room for some ‘well deserved’ relaxation. Even the way this sentence was written, is new to me as it took me a long time to feel like I ‘deserve’ if I did not put in hard work first… I proceeded to spoil myself even more with a candle lit bubble bath to feel absolutely unconditionally superblessed.

I basked in this newfound insight.

It was truly an amazing experience which I felt I could not fully comprehend, so I decided to immediately record my feelings so as to make sense of it all. (and now I am able to write about it)

I shall embrace anything that comes…

In the week after the sweat, my son gifted me a Dorn therapy session with Lisa, which confirmed everything that I found out at the sweat and could be even more released.

…superblessed with gratitude…

A Tribute to Princess Dana…

A Tribute to Princess Dana

(The  Updated Version November 2018)

(and updated again May 2019)

(This is a true story)

Once upon a time (I do believe the year was 2012)…in a far, far away magical place, named Tankwa Town, by the colorful nomads, who traveled from afar and even further… to come together annually for just a little while and remember what life is supposed to be, to find some happiness

…This is where we met our beautiful Princess Dana…

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Africa Burn  should be on your bucket-list as a must-do!

In life it is most important for us to get into the flow and know how superblessed we are…

…and sooner, better than later as I found out just how short life can be, (after writing a Tribute to my friend Dana)…

My granddaughter, Alexia’s daddy, Joe, found out he had cancer and my daughter, Maryna and Joe decided they were going to fight for his life.  Alexia were only two at the time, so my role was to free up Maryna’s time by looking after my granddaughter.

They fought for some time, but sadly Joe died before Alexia turned three years of age.

More challenges were to follow…

We found out my Mom had colon cancer and as it was already aggressive, subsequently she died after just three weeks of finding out.

Then my Dad were told that he should be tested as there were a growth on his back.  Luckily he had an operation to remove the growth.  He is in hospital while I am writing this as he has been battling with prostrate and bladder issues for a while now.

I think what I am trying to convey in this updated version, is that we should start living, while we are alive!

For us, Africa Burn was an eye opener to life…a “wake-up” experience… an awakening as such…

The first time we went in 2012, when asked what Africa Burn was like?

All I could say, is that it was…“A World within a World”

…and now after going back and experiencing more and more every year…and even after our tragic loss at Africa Burn 2016, I can only still give this same answer…

“A World within a World”…

So…at this magical festival we were in 2012…

Photos of a wet 2012 Africa Burn (tap this blue link)

…It was raining and quite stormy, which was unusual weather for being in the desert and all…

…Our camp was set up enough for us to be quite cosy though.

Our very good friend, Johannes Moller, who was camping with us, came and told us that he found some “not so happy campers” and was trying to sort them out…

They have just arrived in the Storm, three ladies and a gentleman (Gerdus) who were feeling ill… whom we promptly took to our cosy tent for a lie-down.

And this is how we met our Princess Dana. With her acquaintance, we also became good friends with her companions, Cathy and Debra…

…So… when the ladies met with the storm in the desert,…they morosely decided that they were going home…

…but our good friend Jo, (short for Johannes), ladies man that he was, promptly came to the rescue and made them feel welcome…

My interest were piqued from the first time I saw Princess Dana…yes, I was intrigued…she was wearing purple and a crown…yes, a tiara…which if you have been to Africa Burn before, would not seem strange at all…

So when I complimented her on the stunning crown she wore, she told me that it was not just worn for Africa Burn, but that she always wears it and mostly wears only purple.

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And during the next wonderful week spend together at Africa Burn, I learned why she wore the crown everyday…

…it was her daily reminder that she was a Princess.

She told me that she was a recovering alcoholic and after a destructive married life, she decided that she was worthy of much more and transformed herself into the beautiful Princess that we met…

(here I would like to fill in that we can be shy/modest or whatever we want to call it, but the sooner we live the life we always wanted to, the better… for example…if you want to be a Princess, then be one.  Just maybe there will be less depression or stress related diseases)

I am all for transformation and Dana’s story impressed me so much.  I grew up with an alcoholic father and to stop drinking because you decide to and then to never drink again were most impressive. The only alcohol she would take were three sips of champagne when celebrating.  When we were together at socials, we used to joke that I was her designated drinker;  and might I add that I am also not the best drinker…

When she shared more and more dark ‘before Princess’ stories with me and saw that her honesty did not freak me out, we would talk about anything, and we did…
She told me how she wanted to move toward a more lighter side of life and I do believe she got her wish 100%…

…in life, we create what we want to create… and this Princess was the perfect example. She wore the crown to remember that she were so worthy and no-one would ever bring her down.

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She taught me to honourFB_IMG_1465918922340 myself because I am worthy…and it stuck with me.

After she met us, she came to visit us in the Garden Route and after the visit she started making plans to move down from Johannesburg to Harkerville and her dream came true when she moved into the perfect space for her. A little house in the woods which she coloured and created to be just perfect.  When she completed her home makeover, she had a fairytale house complete with a purple front door and magical fairies in the garden. A proper storybook house complete with a beautiful Princess…

Princess Dana created a perfect life for herself and in so doing, showed everyone she encountered that this can be done.

She used to say that if you don’t like your life, just simply change it.  Only you have the power to change it.

Her favourite mantra was…‘I love my life’…

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Princess Dana made a living, by reading Tarot Cards and acquired enough clientele to afford a superblessed lifestyle.

A few years ago she even featured on the television show ‘Carte Blanche’ for her Tarot Readings.

We shared the love for reading cards, as I have been doing “Angel Card” Readings for the last seven years.

Looking into my journal, I found a tarot reading that my Princess did for me dated April 2014…

…She asked me to visualise my life as I would want it to be and to write it down (the writing down part is very important)…and as I am reading through it, my life has turned out exactly as it was written down.

I am truly superblessed.

She was also quite upset with me when she heard I did not ask payment for  my readings and would do it for free, believing that I am blessing another.

She told me that my “gift” would be taken away if I did not use it correctly by charging…she said that there were a “gypsy saying” and I have applied it…

“Cross my palm with silver and I will tell you no lies”

She said I should be a human being and not a human doing. She believed in me and encouraged me at every possible opportunity that she believed that I had a ‘gift’ for Angel Card Readings.  Motivation builds creation.

Princess Dana loved to hoop and decided to make a business of this by making her own “bedazzled hoops” for sale. Another little business to bring in some income while playing at life.

She was all about new adventures and trying new things. Recently she decided she also wanted to fire-hoop and immediately got into it and there are so many photos of her hooping beautifully to her hearts delight.

A zest for life, is what she had and she dished it out. If we went to eat at a restaurant or anywhere we went, out the hoop would come and she would be entertaining the crowds with her hooping.  This would be contagious and very soon there would be eager participants and laughter in abundance.  She knew how to spread happiness

Last year a bunch of us went on a road trip together with motorbikes and a vehicle.

We had so much fun and as I went into a state of trance sitting at the back of my husband on the bike, a business idea came to me.

At a pit stop I enthusiastically told Dana about this idea…‘Rent a party crowd’

One evening, a few months later, a friend of ours, Adriaan (Psy-Pedro is his DJ name) had his first gig at a new venue and we decided to support him.

We ended up creating a party for the venue, complete with hooping by Dana and dancing and we were eagerly invited back by the owners.  We should have charged, as the above business idea were blooming fast.

Dana and I decided that with this new business idea and all our amazingly beautiful friends, “Rent a party”, we could easily create an income while playing through life…

Read all about “My Fabulous Friends”…

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And a little bit about Princess Dana’s ‘bewitching’ powers…

Not too long ago, we were at a party on a mountain in Sedgefield with our other friends (Marnus and Nastasja), a magical place in the forest…

I went to the dance floor on a mission to have a good dance.  I saw Princess Dana at a distance hooping, giving me the eye, but I wanted to dance.  I fully intended to, but I just could not relate to the music and started walking in her direction.  She had her little space set up as she usually did.  Dana never did normal camping, we would call it “glamping”.

Anyway…her little chairs were packed out and as I came closer, she stopped hooping and we sat down. She had this mysterious smile and when I asked why, she told me that she “asked” me with her mind to come on over for a chat.

I fully believed her and I was superblessed as we sat chatting and another beautiful friend (Nadia) came over, sat down at my feet and gave me a lovely foot massage.  When I said something to the effect that the music of the playing DJ at the time, were not the best, she jokingly asked…”shall I go change it for you”… we had a good laugh…  She always made me feel like a queen and I am superblessed to have known such a beautiful being.

Everything just flowed when I was blessed to be in her company…

…she just knew how to love…

Matjiesfontein on our way to Africa Burn 2015…

December 2015, we rented out our house as we did every season.  This obviously comes with a lot of cleaning to be done. I finished up cleaning and went to stay with Princess Dana in her purple cottage.

There were a few of our other girl friends as well as Arina’s son, Conrad and we had such a good time.  Dana and I slept together in the same bed and we felt like teenagers chatting till the early morning hours.

Next day all I did, were to sit on her wooden hammock outside in her beautiful garden and I didn’t even realise until late afternoon, that this was all I did for a full day…

We drank tea out of beautiful cups and had lovely treats the whole day long.  She spoiled me when I needed it most…

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In 2015, she came to stay with me for a week and we were both feeling a bit under the weather…we also stayed in bed and watched documentaries and chatted so much about everything and nothing. I mostly spoiled her with our meals, because being a Princess, Dana did not like cooking much.

At this time, as woman usually do, we chatted about our giving-birth experience.  Our daughters are of similar age and they are very similar personality wise.  I had a very rare birth experience with my daughter and when Dana told me about her experience, we were totally amazed at how similar it was.

Left: My granddaughter Alexia receiving some Princess training…

Right:  Princess Dana with her granddaughter Mikayla

When her granddaughter were born, I was superblessed to be the one next to her and share in her joy. We were in her car on our way in to Plettenberg Bay, when she received the call.

I know I have been rambling on and I do believe I needed to as I miss her so…

This morning and many mornings to come, I will put on my make-up and think of my purple princess Dana as I am using the eye pencil she bought me as a gift (it is nearing it’s end now).  It is a special one as it is dual colour and I received the first one a few years ago from her.  When it was nearly finished, I started looking for something similar, but could not find it anywhere.  Dana started looking as well and finally only about a week before Africa Burn (2016), she brought me two more…this is how she was…always making others happy.

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“yes, but you are my Queen”…

She was always esteeming others and therefore had so many fans.

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Above:  December 2014  Holiday Road trip

She grew into the beautiful being of light that we said goodbye to at the same magical place that we met.

Above pic taken just awhile before she left us…still playing…

So it has taken a phenomenal Princess of a woman like this to die…for us… to see what it is to live…and that is exactly an end to this story that Princess Dana would have loved…

…even now she has celebrity status…being an inspiration to all…

Below:  We had a sendoff (one of a few) for Princess Dana on Harkerville farm where she lived…FB_IMG_1465827844417

Rest In Peace

Superblessed to have had such a magical being on my journey!